I was recently in a baby shower party and in one part of the
program, the ladies were asked to give tips, wishes & advices for the soon
to be mom. And these reminders from Deuteronomy
6:5-7 came to my mind...
It has too often been the wise counsel to many new parents
to put Christ in the center of their homes.
But what does it really mean?
Where does that fit in between the morning rush to school and work? How is that achieved in the midst of our busy
schedules—juggling piles of laundry on one hand and helping the kids with homework
and driving them to soccer games and ballet lessons on the other while planning
and executing the weekly breakfast, lunch and dinner menu?
We are commanded to wholeheartedly love the Lord and
diligently teach the same to our children.
When we love someone, that person is constantly in our thoughts and
conversations. Our daily tasks no longer
become a burden but a delight to accomplish for the one that we love. Sacrifice becomes pleasure for the sake our
beloved. Thus, to love the Lord with all
our heart, soul and strength is to make our world revolve around Him. It is making Him more than just a part of our
families, but making everything start and end with Him. His kingdom agenda and righteousness now
become our priority. We love each other
despite our faults and differences because we are loved by God, our Father the same way. And following His example is what will make
Him happy. We should talk about Him over dinner and while we walk the kids to school. We should make Him and His desires the
subject of our discussions and bedtime stories.
We should find time to remember Him, to listen to Him, to consult Him,
to thank and praise Him together in prayer and as we study His Word and obey
Him.
To make Jesus the center of our homes means making Him the
source of our joys (not the new dishwasher we’ve always wanted to get); the
source of our strength & security (not Daddy’s job nor a bottle of Tylenol);
the source of the calm in our chaos (not shutting up the kids when they’re
fighting over the last KitKat); the source of our comfort (not the most
longed-for lazy Saturday mornings nor the dream vacation to Disneyland); and
the source of our hope (not our child’s straight As and the bright future it so
promises). Of course, God can bless our
families with many good things which we are to be grateful for. However, even without such things as money, new
pairs of shoes, good health, an employment one can truly be proud of, perfect
kids, a nice house or a well-groomed garden, we can still find beauty and sense
to our days—be it good or bad—when God is in the center of it.
"Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do...but how much love we put in that action."
--Mother Teresa